R. Eric Thomas
Bestselling author R. Eric Thomas brings his signature wit and warmth to “Asking Eric,” an advice column tackling life’s quandaries. Drawing on his stint as Slate’s “Dear Prudence,” Thomas dishes out insightful, humorous guidance for navigating relationships, work, and everything in between.
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Asking Eric: Bride wants to cut terse sister-in-law from wedding guest list
"My fiancé says that excluding her will create drama."

Asking Eric: Friendship with father’s best friend becomes a burden
"My father was barely in my life; he left my brother and I with a horribly abusive mother."

Asking Eric: Dance student wants to advance without insulting instructor
"It's tricky to bring this up as we don't want to criticize their teaching style."

Asking Eric: Deaf sister excluded by brothers
"It's hard enough being the only girl and having a disability. What do you think I should do?"

Asking Eric: Stepmother unsure about giving quarrelsome stepson inheritance
"My husband has made it clear he thinks I should split my inherited land equally between the four children. I disagree."

Asking Eric: Letter writer seeks the kindest way to end a friendship
"More plainly, I just don’t want to continue these other friendships right now."

Asking Eric: Partner’s work perks create strife at home
"I hate that he travels and I hate the fact that I'm envious of it."

Asking Eric: Mother’s rambling tests patience
"I love my mother dearly but at 84 she has reached the point of rambling."

Asking Eric: After years of moving, widow doesn’t know where to go in retirement
"You see, during my 36 years of marriage, we moved 13 times. I really don’t have roots."

Asking Eric: Pet-sitting incident leads to damage and guilty feeling
"I feel like things are smoothed over but I also want some resolution so I can feel like our friendship is back on an even keel."