R. Eric Thomas
Bestselling author R. Eric Thomas brings his signature wit and warmth to “Asking Eric,” an advice column tackling life’s quandaries. Drawing on his stint as Slate’s “Dear Prudence,” Thomas dishes out insightful, humorous guidance for navigating relationships, work, and everything in between.
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Asking Eric: Sister’s relationship is consuming her life
I’m concerned about how quickly they have become emotionally dependent on each other.

Asking Eric: Husband’s mean comments about house clutter cause arguments
He talks to me as if I'm a child, scolding me and making me feel terrible.

Asking Eric: Woman fears being left alone after father and partner die
I feel like I am already grieving. The shape of the world that we live in is depressing.

Asking Eric: Husband’s grocery splurges create strife
My husband sometimes indulges in a piece of costly, extra-smoked pork he orders online from a specialty shop.

Asking Eric: Regular manicurist came close to drawing blood. Time to fire?
Now she’s back and I just received the worst manicure ever.

Asking Eric: Husband’s connection with “professional tease” tests marriage
He told me I'm overreacting even though the language, even the emojis used, are his usual tone.

Asking Eric: Friend takes too many leftovers after holiday meals
Although tone-deaf, my friend is extremely sensitive, so I am reluctant to say anything. Do you have any advice?

Asking Eric: Widowed songwriter sings about new girlfriend, but his sons aren’t all ears
One son’s cryptic response made me call him to talk it through. Even though he wants me to be happy, he really doesn’t want to hear my songs that embrace...

Asking Eric: Retired parents always get stuck footing the bill for blended family
Dear Eric: My husband and I are senior citizens in a large, blended family. Back when we were younger, and both gainfully employed, we paid for everything any time our...

Asking Eric: New boyfriend is overly friendly to younger women
Dear Eric: I'm a woman in a new relationship with a fabulous man who doesn't seem to understand an issue I've brought to his attention. I noted recently that when...