Q: Hi Scott,
I am really confused. I am a very smart young woman… I have a great job, a lot of ambition, and I just may say myself that I am hot (not to sound conceited).
But, my problem is that I really seriously feel like I end up with the worst guys.
They end up being complete jerks or have nothing going on for them. Some are 25 and still live with their mother!!!!!
So, my question is: where should I go meet a decent man?
We know that the bars don’t work!! I’m just sick of the same old thing over and over again. I know that “true love finds you,” but I don’t believe it’s going to find me while I’m driving, or at work, or at the gym, or sitting on my couch at home.
Where do the “good guys” hide out?
Thank you!
SCOTT: Hey hottie, you’re more in control of the guys you “end up with” than you know.
If you’re smart with a great job, then find someone you’re compatible with instead of a 25-year-old who still lives with his momma.
Where should you go to meet them? Well let’s see… not in your car, not in your home and probably not at your local Dave and Buster’s.
“Good guys” aren’t hiding, they’re out there. But unfortunately, you have to find them yourself.
Imagine if there were a place with a big sign that says “Good Guys” and you could just go in and pick one out, or if I could just ship you one. Wouldn’t that be great?
Okay, now quit imagining because that ain’t gonna happen!
I was at the gym the other day thinking how it’s the bar of the 21st century. If it weren’t, it wouldn’t be open so late. I mean really besides me, who works out at 10 p.m.?
It’s actually cool that people meet this way, plus it’s a lot healthier than a smoky bar!
Internet singles sites are something we didn’t have a long time ago, either. They can be found everywhere online and they’re a great way for people to screen each other before they meet. Plus, they’re all open 24/7.
See, as long as you keep an open mind and be realistic, you can sort out the men from the boys and get what you want.