Q: Hi Scott : )
I am a 28-year-old woman (just in case you get a lot of questions from guys) and I could use some feedback.
I don’t have much experience with men. I’m not sure what it is they’re looking for when they first meet a girl. I know it’s important to be yourself… still, both men and women have certain specifics that work and don’t work.
What gets a guy interested (other than a hot girl) and what keeps him interested?
I would really appreciate your response if you get a chance.
Thanks,
– Anne
Scott: Hi Anne,
You mean you don’t have a lot of experience with men and you came to me for advice? Please allow me to commend you for your brilliance, for I am indeed impressed!
And, since I’m feeling extra generous today, I will share a valuable secret with you.
Sure, we all know guys like a hot-looking girl. But what really keeps a guy interested is a great personality (yes, of course be yourself), a half-a-brain and a nice smile.
But that’s only half of the secret. The other half is that a girl who listens to a guy, doesn’t talk about her problems or past relationships, and isn’t pushy, needy or bitchy stands a far better chance of keeping a guy’s interest than one who doesn’t.
Oh, and a healthy appetite for sex doesn’t hurt either.
Well, you asked.