Mike Binder’s “The Upside of Anger” is a testament to the wiriness of Joan Allen and the malleability of Kevin Costner.
Though it’s a blend of romantic comedy and domestic drama that occasionally gets lumpy, “Upside” ($27.95) at least tackles suburban unease with a sense of spirit and is helped by its leads’ performances. Allen is Terry Wolf- meyer, the angry middle-aged mother of four almost-grown daughters whose unease comes from her husband having left her high and dry with the parenting duties.
Living near her Michigan home is Costner’s Denny Davies, a former pro baseball player of note who is living off his past glory selling his autographs, hosting a radio talk show and drinking a lot of beer as he drifts into aimlessness.
Terry is drinking too, just trying to cope with the girls, played by Evan Rachel Wood, Erika Christensen, Keri Russell and Alicia Witt. What Denny sees in Terry is purpose and substance – a challenge that he hasn’t had since his retirement. Terry at first sees only another childish man.
An uneasy truce and then a relationship develops as Terry begins to bend – the tall, thin Allen says volumes with her body language – and Denny, bloated in his post-baseball life, begins to show some of the grace and muscle in his character that once made him a successful athlete. It’s a transition that Costner does with an engaging ease.
While Binder’s film is manipulative at times, it captures some of the complexities and absurdities of middle-age relationships, often born of mistrust and fear. Denny and Terry appear unsuited for each other – no Romeo and Juliet – yet they manage not just to agree on a middle ground but to find a way beyond it. As messy as love is, it requires thinking outside the box and a few laughs, Binder seems to be saying.
And “The Upside of Anger” delivers its own laughs, a few tears and two very lovely performances.
“Sith” coming Nov. 1
The Force will be complete – at least for now.
“Star Wars: Episode III – Revenge of the Sith,” this year’s box-office giant, will be released on DVD Nov. 1.
The two-disc “Sith” set will include a new full-length documentary, two new featurettes – one exploring the Anakin Skywalker prophecy, the other providing a look at the movie’s stunts – and a 15-part collection of “Web documentaries.” Also coming out that day is the “Star Wars Battlefront II” video game.
Once “Sith” has had its DVD run, expect various box sets to follow. At least, that’s my prophecy.
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