Aries
March 21 to April 19
It might be a good idea to relax your standards a wee bit. You may be aiming higher than you need to when it comes to what you desire in a relationship. This could be keeping you from finding someone, or allowing them to come to you.
I know, you’re looking for perfection and expect it to come your way sooner or later. You’re also thinking that you deserve the very, very best.
Of course, all of this is true, but this week you should reevaluate what you’re looking for and make a decision as to whether or not it’s possible.
By being open to the idea of accepting a fault or two, you’ll also be open to meeting the types of people who can be quite interesting albeit, rather human.
You need to relax, have a laugh or two and enjoy the company of friends. It’s possible that some sort of reunion or get-together is coming your way. Taking advantage of this opportunity to socialize with old friends or acquaintances could put you in a position to meet someone to play with.
Monday, Thursday and Friday are the best days to indulge your fantasies.
Taurus
April 20 to May 20
Deflector shields up!
Emotionally, you’re extremely vulnerable and could find yourself being taken advantage of if you don’t buckle up and maintain a strong sense of personal propriety.
You can’t afford to play in the sleazy playgrounds offered up by others. Obviously, this is a personal judgment call but rest assured that if you allow yourself to be lured into the thick, sweet world of excess, you’ll pay the price.
Being strong and unflinching when it comes to making your own decisions is the key to having a healthy, enjoyable time with love this week.
You’ll be drawing several types of energies throughout the week. Your charisma is high and your personal power on display.
At least one of the people drawn to you could be the risky energy I alluded to above. This person could be dynamic, exciting and as dangerous as preparing your own Fugu.
Friday through the weekend are great days to play the game.
Gemini
May 21 to June 20
When it comes to love, take control of every situation.
You have it in your power to be desirable and successful when it comes to the world of romance. Don’t hesitate to be demanding, even picky, when it comes to the types of connections that come your way.
In fact, the more person persnickety you are, the better off you’ll be. You don’t need to accept that which isn’t just right for you. If you do, you’ll get what you deserve.
While this is a good time to be demanding, this is not the time to begin a new permanent relationship. If you’ve been thinking about popping the question or inviting someone to move in with you, do it another time.
This week’s energies are not about permanence. Think dessert rather than the main dish.
By the way, it’s possible that you’ve felt that a current relationship may be slipping a bit. If this is the case, it’s time to re-evaluate, and perhaps move on to a different scenario.
Being taken advantage of is never fun and it’s possible that someone is taking all that they can get.
An opportunity Tuesday or Thursday should be seized when it comes to the world of love and romance.
Focus on the downtown area for the best results.
Cancer
June 21 to July 22
If you work hard, you could find yourself involved in several relationships this week. Far from being a dilemma, this could be some of the most fun you’ve had in ages.
Obviously, such situations badly managed provide ample opportunities for confusion, embarrassment and overall misery. Keeping this in mind will help you to decide how best to deal with the circumstances that arise throughout the week.
You could meet someone Tuesday or Thursday who has an immense amount to offer. They’ll be the type who makes you want to be malleable when it comes to whatever they want. Beware of this energy as it could have you jumping through hoops without the reward of a treat at the end of the act.
Understanding the dynamics of this energy could also put you in a position to have a great deal of fun. The key is not to be taken advantage of, unless you want to be, of course..
This would be a good week to spend as much time as possible engaging in social settings in order to meet interesting new people. The more social you are, the better off you’ll be.
The entire week is perfect for these endeavors.
Leo
July 23 to August 22
You may feel as though someone is attempting to overcome your boundaries in order to get closer to you. This may feel like an all-out assault on your sensibilities and you need to remain in control.
In fact, it would be a great idea to let someone else drive for a while. Control freaks need not apply.
If you find someone intensely drawn to you, try not to be too cynical or to shut them out without giving them a fighting chance. You could be giving up on something good before it has the ability to evolve.
By the way, if you want to know where you’ll be meeting people this week, venture out of your normal arena. This isn’t to say that you should go spelunking or climbing a fourteener in order to find love. Obviously, you need to remain somewhere where people still meet each other for fun and games.
If an attempt to become seriously involved with you on a physical level is made and you feel like participating, say yes to intimacy as long as you’re careful and conscious and all aspects of the situation.
Wednesday, Friday and Saturday are your best days to pursue love.
DTC and the Lonetree area look hopeful.
Virgo
August 23 to September 22
Don’t hesitate to hurl yourself into the roaring furnace of romance!
Pleasure is the main objective of this week’s energy. If it ain’t fun, don’t do it.
This is especially important if you’ve just found yourself in a situation where your heart has been broken by a breakup or rejection of some sort.
It’s also possible that this rejection happened eons ago. Whatever the case, be proactive in making it your passionate duty to move out into the world of love again and to experience life.
Your energies are such that you will be desirable and interesting to all you meet. Allowing yourself to be aware of this energy can give you an amazing advantage when it comes to choosing the right person.
Yes, that person may be playing coy and hard to get, but they’re much more interested in you than you than they’re letting on.
Get thee out to a hot nightspot around Union Station, LoDo and wherever else things are hopping.
Be on the lookout for an opportunity that arises Wednesday or Thursday to engage in fun and games. Although these days are the best, the weekend also proves to be right for romance.
Libra
September 23 to October 22
The only thing standing in the way of a successful romantic connection this week is your own frame of mind.
To be fair, even though you know this is the case, it may not make it any easier for you to get from point A to point B.
Yes, I’m advocating a week of self-evaluation and trying to understand what it is that seems to be getting in the way.
You might find it advantageous to get hold of somebody who knows you well and is willing to tell you the truth about your role in relationships. Obviously, this has to be someone who’s opinion you trust, someone you know who won’t hesitate to tell you the truth as they see it in order to help you.
I’m not advocating staying away from romantic endeavors completely. In fact, as long you stay aware of these issues, you should do well when it comes to meeting new people and engaging them in interesting relationships.
The key is not to take things too seriously at this time nor to try to force any romantic permanence, as this will certainly be a path to failure.
If you happen to be in a current committed relationship, take some time to reevaluate your role in it. An answer is attempting to find your consciousness.
Thursday is a good day to mingle.
Scorpio
October 23 to November 21
Attention Scorpios! You’ll have problems this week if you don’t keep your emotions and energies under control.
This can be difficult for true Scorpio types, especially when your energy is highly sexual and volatile.
Your desires will be on fast-forward throughout the week and you could find yourself impatient and irritated with the way things turn out.
This could be emphasized when it comes to a relationship that you’re attempting to move to the next level of intimacy.
The key to success is not to rush things, nor to attempt to push someone. Wait until they’re completely ready for what you have in mind. The harder you try to convince someone that you’re right and they’re wrong, the longer you’ll have to wage your campaign.
Respecting other people’s boundaries will actually allow you to see them clearer and how to next proceed.
If you happen to be in a committed relationship and the energies have waned, don’t try to heat things up this week.
The weekend is the best time to respectfully engage others in relationship issues.
Sagittarius
November 22 to December 21
This week can bring pretty amazing results when it comes to romance.
The key to making this work for you is to employ a strategy, specifically when it comes to dealing with an intelligent playmate that may be entering your life.
This person will be a bit of a philosopher and probably quite cynical or skeptical when it comes to love. The good news is that he/she has wonderful traits that could be positively delightful.
One of the keys to getting this person interested in you is to be open, talkative and willing to display your intellect. Of course, this doesn’t mean being a braggart or show off, as this will turn them off completely.
This would be an excellent time to go to the Denver Art Museum, hang out in the Denver Public Library, (sorry, the illustrated novellas are no longer available) or at the museum. Don’t worry, you’ll know this person when you see them and chances are they’ll know you.
If you do decide to encounter nightlife and attempt to meet someone of interest, be aware that you need to be somewhat understated in order to make the type of impression you’d like to.
Monday, Wednesday and Thursday are your best days for these endeavors.
Capricorn
December 22 to January19
This week you win the Golden Romance Cookie when it comes to the potential for finding love!
Yep, there could be a new fling coming your way. This could, in turn, become a passionate and heartfelt romance.
Where it goes from there will be up to the two of you.
Unfortunately, this won’t happen by itself. You’ll have to position yourself by going to the types of places that will give you an opportunity to meet people that you could be interested in.
If you like the intellectual types, visit an intellectual spot. If you’d rather have someone who likes to dance the night away, find a sweat soaked, nightclub.
This is all about you enjoying yourself and meeting the type of person that could make romance fun again. (Yes, it really can be fun. I promise.)
You may have noticed that I use the L word. This week it happens to be a real possibility.
Keep in mind that there’s a probability of being introduced to love through a third party. You might consider allowing yourself to be set up on a date, even if usually shun such situations.
Wednesday through Sunday will give ample opportunities for you to meet someone who could be important in a long-term, committed relationship.
Aquarius
January 20 to February 18
The week could start out with difficulties when it comes to romance. This could manifest as a misunderstanding with someone that you already have a connection with; or it may manifest as a major setback on the dating scene.
Try not to worry too much about the details, as it’s only a matter of miscommunication. Someone doesn’t understand your frame of reference. All you need to do is educate them. If you have trouble speaking face-to-face, do it by e-mail, or if you’re truly feeling archaic, send a letter.
The key to romantic success throughout the week is to be as communicative as possible.
You can’t make the assumption that others know what you’re thinking or that they know what you want when it comes to a relationship.
In fact, it’s best assume that you’re an enigma to everyone who comes your way. Knowing this should help.
Open up, speak your mind and don’t be intimidated by your own truth.
When it comes to love, your best bet will be to focus on Thursday through the weekend.
Pisces
February 19 to March 20
This week offers gooey, wonderful energies when it comes to love and romance.
Let’s get serious here. If you’ve been thinking about moving to the next level in a relationship, this is the week.
The energies are such that you should be able to make a great impression on someone and have them see the very best that you can offer. (Take this energy while you can.)
You have a responsibility to understand the impact of the energy that surrounds you this week. Understanding that this dynamic is present in your life, you should be aware that anyone that you become involved with may be thinking more seriously about the relationship than you are.
This isn’t it time to engage in frivolous or halfhearted liaisons. This week’s energies are all about meeting people with the intention of finding a stronger, more committed relationship in your life.
If permanence isn’t your goal, reconsider getting involved in romance this week.
If, however, you are willing to look for a closer, more committed relationship, then this is the week to engage on that search. Consider it your Grail quest.
The entire week can provide the types of energies that you’re seeking.
