Aries
March 21 to April 19
Your search for love could lead you to strange places.
Sticking with the status quo will not only be boring, but counterproductive to any joy that should be coming into your life this week.
Do something unusual.
This doesn’t mean that you need to take up competitive jalapeno pepper eating in order to fulfill this requirement. Besides, very few people want to kiss a competitive jalapeno champion.
Find a friend or two to play with, and decide to visit an alternative section of the Denver metro area. If you live in an older part of town, go somewhere new. If you live somewhere new, well, find somewhere new to you. The whole point is to change your pattern and not to be stuck in the same old rut.
Be as introspective as possible when dealing with new people and don’t say things that you don’t mean. Engaging in hyperbole could bring disaster. ( I’m not exaggerating.)
You need to tell the truth, although a bit of sugar never hurts, but keep it absolutely on the straight and narrow.
Persistence is the key to success so don’t give up, if it first you don’t succeed. Of course, knowing when to say “I’m backing off now, no need to call the police,” is also a good thing.
Tuesday, Thursday and Friday of the best days to confidently go forth and search new connections.
Taurus
April 20 to May 20
Don’t second-guess your feelings when it comes to love.
It’s possible that someone has eyes for you, and you for them. Although you may be doubting your own judgment when it comes to whether or not they really see you for who you are, don’t doubt yourself into ruining something that could be wonderful.
That little voice inside of you is telling you something you absolutely need to know. (I know, some of you men are saying it’s not that little, and we all know it’s not the size of the voice but how it’s used,) Pay attention to it.
This may mean taking a chance on speaking to someone who might otherwise scare you into mute submission.
The other side of this energy could have someone getting up the nerve to finally ask you out in hopes of getting to know you much, much better. Don’t lead them on if you aren’t interested, as this will only be cruel and backfire in the end.
The key to romance this week is to have a bit of courage when speaking to others and to be willing to take a chance for two if asked out on a date.
Monday, Friday and Sunday at the best days to frolic with others.
Gemini
May 21 to June 20
Romantic frustrations could abound.
It’s possible that you’ve been flirting your heart out with someone and they seemingly haven’t noticed. You may actually be embarrassing yourself in an attempt to get someone to look at you in a romantic way.
Even if you used real bats to bat those eyelashes, you probably wouldn’t get a second glance.
Don’t let this get you down, as it’s only an affectation and an appearance of strength.
You have much more impact than you know and this is the perfect week to allow that impact to sink in. In other words, don’t expect results this week or you’ll find total frustration.
Leaving your anxieties behind and allowing your genuine personality to come forth is the key to interpersonal success. If someone’s interested in you, don’t go out of your way to try to impress them. In fact, just be yourself and allow them to see the brilliance within.
The possibilities of a work related romance heating up are high. This could be a fun connection, as long as you don’t take it too seriously and expect too much, too soon.
Remember, desperation will be its own reward this week, so expect less and you’ll get more.
Wednesday through the weekend are excellent days to connect with others.
Cancer
June 21 to July 22
If you been thinking about asking that person out, do it now!
This is your chance to make an impression upon someone, albeit perhaps an annoying one if you’re not careful, so you need to get it done, and tactfully.
Obviously, you want to make the best impression possible, so make your move without being bullying or obnoxious.
This means being respectful of other people’s boundaries and not trying to barge in when it comes to the door being opened slightly.
By the way, if you happen to be someone who deals with the public in a big way, rest assured that you’ll be noticed throughout the week. Your charisma will be extra high and others will see you as someone worth getting to know. This will accentuate your ability to make the type of connection you want.
Think carefully before engaging someone in, what could be, a torrid love affair. Making the wrong move at this time could be disastrous as the weeks unfold. If there’s any question at all, wait until another time.
Monday, Thursday and Sunday are excellent days to meet others.
Leo
July 23 to August 22
Unless you start breaking mirrors or walking under ladders, you should get lucky this week.
Obviously, getting lucky is a subjective term and doesn’t necessarily mean what you want it to. This could allude to meeting someone dynamic and personable in your life who could turn out to be a long term partner.
On the other hand, it could simply mean what the common vernacular means it to mean.
Of course, should Lady Luck, or the Earl of Luck smile down upon you, play safely.
Let’s get back to the concept of meeting someone worthwhile. This could happen after Wednesday, and could be pretty spectacular. The person involved will be able to connect with you without trying to dominate the conversation, or your personal will.
It’s also possible that you’ll meet more than one willing prospect, so be alert and don’t necessarily fall into the first gondola that goes by.
By the way, the strategy for the week should be one of being soft-spoken and not overly loud or domineering. Make them come to you and you’ll find the energies work much better.
Interestingly enough, the louder the social setting, the more effective this strategy will be. Making them lean into you, to hear you, will bring them close to those luscious lips of yours.
Wednesday through the weekend are all excellent days to look for that four leaf clover.
Virgo
August 23 to September 22
The time has come to make transitions when it comes to romantic and relationship ideals.
It may even be time for you to make a change in your actual relationship situation… whatever that means. If you been contemplating letting a relationship go, this might be the week to do so.
You don’t necessarily have to jump ship this week, but you do need to be willing to look carefully and honestly at all the energy surrounding how you deal with relationships and whether or not you’re truly happy.
If this means setting stronger boundaries and more distinct parameters in your life, then you absolutely must do so if you want any chance of happiness to evolve.
If you’ve found yourself over the past few weeks fruitlessly dating person after person and not having any satisfaction from the situation, let it rest for the time being. You’ll be better off not seeing anybody.
Rethink love and don’t allow yourself to fall into a place of self-pity. This is an excellent time for you to look at things differently.
Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday are your days to explore.
Libra
September 23 to October 22
You can talk anybody into almost anything.
Yes, the Lucky Rabbit’s Foot of Love is safely placed in your pocket, and since I abhor such things, the rabbit is alive and doing well. (Don’t eat the raisins.)
Your ability to communicate in a subtle and almost astounding way has arrived. This could lead to incredible manipulative abilities, but beware. Although you may think you want to manipulate, I can assure you it will only lead to difficulties as time goes on.
Although you can certainly lead a horse to water and, this week, make them drink, you’ll find yourself having an incredibly rough ride if there’s even a hint of manipulation involved.
By the way, while were dealing with this ancient metaphor, whatever you do, don’t go bareback, no matter how confident and good a rider you are.
If you want things to turn out well, use this ability to influence others in a good and gentle manner. This means not trying to get what you can out of them, but trying to get them to see you for who you really are.
The best use of this strange power will be on the Internet, in a chat room or through e-mail.
The entire week is excellent for meeting others and connecting on a deeper level.
Scorpio
October 23 to November 21
If love’s been eluding you, try to discern whether or not it’s something you really want, and if so, how you want it.
This may seem like strange advice but bear with me.
If relationships have been nothing but trouble for you, or you really don’t trust them, you need to reevaluate how you view the whole subject.
Self-expression is the key to meeting someone of interest, but that can’t happen if you can’t express yourself honestly.
It would be better for you to say what’s really on your mind, even if that seems to be counterproductive to having someone want to be with you, then to try to hide your inner feelings.
Your inner truth can’t be hidden at this time and you’ll only seem devious or filled with ulterior motives if you try.
Keeping all this in mind, don’t be surprised if a relationship takes a sudden turn for the worse. The energies are such that your truth will come out and someone in your life may not like what they hear.
Once again, don’t fear honesty unless you are perfectly happy with the way things are going.
By the way, you’ll be perceived as being interesting and worth talking to, so make sure you get out there and find someone with whom to converse.
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday are your best days to open your heart.
Sagittarius
November 22 to December 21
The more social you are, the better off your love life will become.
You don’t have to put on a clown nose, orange hair and big shoes in order to be the life of the party. (Believe me, I know from personal experience of what I speak.) Being jovial and excited on the inside will be quite enough.
If you allow a sense of depression or self-serving regret to get in the way, you might as well stay in all week. The excitement of love and connecting needs to be inside of you if you want to succeed.
Being cheery isn’t always the easiest thing to do, especially when we have to deal with some of the people that we have to deal with. However, the show must go on, and you need to be willing to entertain a bit if you want to draw interesting people to you.
If you happen to be invited to a party, absolutely go. This’ll give you the perfect opportunity to express yourself in a fun and unique manner, to people who won’t be shocked by some of the things you may have to say.
Just remember to keep it light and give everyone you meet a smile. Of course, try to keep that smile from becoming a grimace that terrifies those who surround you. If it doesn’t come from the heart, you can’t do it.
Tuesday, Thursday, and the weekend are great days to squeeze the wheeze.
Capricorn
December 22 to January19
Stay close to home to find love and romance.
Your best chance of finding someone with whom to get chummy with will come from your local neighborhood or usual stomping grounds.
This is a good time to ask friends to set you up, or to go to a party, especially if you know there’ll be people there that you already know.
When conversing, make sure it’s on subjects that you know enough about to be interesting. Whatever you do, don’t try to pretend you know something you don’t, or you’ll be found out immediately.
As you can see, the concept of staying close to home applies to your knowledge base, as well as your physical surroundings.
If you have the opportunity to entertain in your home, do so. Cook a wonderful meal or put together an interesting evening of conversation and witty repartee.
Don’t be afraid of intimacy this week, as long as it’s completely on your terms.
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Sunday are excellent days to be the perfect host or hostess.
Aquarius
January 20 to February 18
This week could provide you with someone new in your life, someone who may have started out as a friend.
The important issue here is that of true friendship. If you seek only romance, you’ll end up with a temporary situation that doesn’t give you anything worthwhile.
If you stay focused on friendships and how they need to evolve, you could find that the evolution takes you directly into a full fledged love affair.
If intimacy comes to mind, and doesn’t it always, don’t be afraid to cautiously go forward. Sometimes, one of the best aspects of a friendship is the physical relationship that can be shared.
You mustn’t, however, fall into the trap of thinking that just because an intimate connection has been made, that love exists.
Remember, this isn’t about long-term connections. This is all about meeting someone, getting to know them better as a friend and letting the energy evolve on its own accord.
There’s also the possibility that this could take place in the work environment. If this occurs, make sure to go extra slowly, or you could end up in some sort of trouble.
The entire week is good for cautiously moving forward with friendships.
Pisces
February 19 to March 20
Since you’ll be the central figure in the gossip columns this week, be certain you live your life accordingly.
The scrutiny you’ll get may be uncomfortable, but it could also help to propel you into a new level of interest.
This means others will be anxious to talk about you and to know more about you.
Be willing to speak up and tell them your life story, complete with all the gooey details, without appearing to be self-involved or a blowhard.
By being interesting, and yes, you’ll be interesting, you’ll find that some people want to talk to, while others may actually shun you. Don’t worry about those who keep you at an arms length, they’re doing so because they can’t quite figure you out.
The key is not to worry about being figured out. All you’re trying to do is to make an impression and allow things to go from there.
By the way, someone you meet Thursday or Friday could be especially interested in a deeper connection. They’ll be wanting to take all sorts of paparazzi type pictures if you allow them to.
Thursday through the weekend are excellent days to be hounded by the press.
