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Q: Dear Scott,
Fifteen years ago, I met my soulmate in Baltimore. I was in my twenties and didn’t realize what I had until long after we split.
He now lives in Denver. We were both in relationships w/ other people; currently, I am not.
Should I tell him my true feelings?….he’s still w/ someone else, though I don’t know how happy he is.
– Signed, Susan Desperately seeking Soulmate
SCOTT: You know Susan, some things are meant to be and some are not.
Now that 15 years have passed, you really have nothing to lose by telling him how you feel.
But let’s make a deal. Go ahead and spill your guts, but if he gives you the brush off, you’ll let it go and move onward.
OK?