Aries
March 21 to April 19
Love’s a mixed bag all week.
You’ll have opportunities to meet and enjoy the company of more than one romantic prospect. You can create love options by allowing yourself to be placed in situations that demand interaction and social intercourse.
Heading downtown for dining and dancing, or a trip to the Comedy Works with a friend or two is exactly what the Doctor of Love prescribes. (For the record, I am not a Doctor of Love, nor do I play one on television.)
A word of warning goes along with meeting lots of people. You’ll need to curb your enthusiasm.
Appearing to be chomping at the bit could expose you to emotional danger, heartache and worst of all, disappointment.
You know all about disappointment, don’t you?
Should you find yourself thrust into a new relationship and you feel emotional quicksand pervading, extricate yourself immediately and bring it to lighter level.
Keep expectations to a minimum and be realistic.
Monday, Thursday and Saturday are excellent days to share your toys with others.
Taurus
April 20 to May 20
What could start out as a difficult or contentious relationship may turn into blossoming possibilities of love.
If you’ve found yourself recently involved with someone and things haven’t gone the way you’d like them to, hold out hope.
Having hope doesn’t mean contorting yourself into a pretzel or English Muffin in order to be liked. You mustn’t allow yourself to be stereotyped or forced to become somebody, or something, that you’re not.
The same holds true for your expectations of others. It’s possible that you’ve tried to force a love interest into a mold that doesn’t exist. No double standards allowed. Make sure you see everyone as they are and not as you’d like them to be.
It’s much more important to be honest with yourself in what you want and to wait for that person rather than to fall into a relationship that could be horrible.
The entire week’s energy is one of cautious optimism when dealing with the heart.
Monday, Wednesday and the weekend are good days to connect.
Gemini
May 21 to June 20
This is your week to pitch the woo.
Your ability to influence people will be high. You’ll find that you attract love interests with ease. Don’t hesitate to be receptive when it comes to others’ thoughts, wishes or desires. By listening to what they want and acquiescing to their demands, you’ll find that they’ll be anxious to help you achieve your own goals.
Obviously when it comes to love and romance, the goals are for connections, happiness and for some of you, a romp through the hay.
This is an excellent time to allow yourself to be pulled into any activity, whether it be social, career based or something even more unique.
Join in chat room discussions where love, romance and desire are the topics. You could also find a web ring that speaks your language.
Wherever you find yourself, be willing to use gentle, influencing techniques to lure people over to your side of the fence.
There’s a strong chance of an interpersonal connection occurring as the weekend approaches.
If this occurs, focus on the weekend for your best time with love.
Cancer
June 21 to July 22
You need to pay attention to your intuition when it comes to infatuations.
A strong energy is directing you to meet someone of great interest, someone who could turn out to be extremely important in your life.
This week, the potential for true love exists and allowing yourself to be swayed and directed by the right types of energies will help give you what you need.
It’s vital that you stop potential trouble in its tracks and not allow yourself to be swayed by pure physical desire in any relationship that’s developing, at least not yet.
If you’re seen as being only interested in sex, that’s all you’ll get and you’ll miss out on the potential for a great, potentially long-lasting relationship.
Cover up those horns and don’t allow them to be seen until later.
You could meet your dreamboat by pure chance so keep your eyes open when dining out, in the grocery store or watching the wildlife in the Park Meadows Mall food court.
Don’t forget, this could lead you to someone of lasting importance.
The entire week should be used to search for your heart’s desire.
Leo
July 23 to August 22
Be receptive to anything, and you could find everything.
A calm, moderate energy is called for. Donning your satiny gold leisure suit and shaking your booty simply won’t do.
An exhibit of undue emotions, or shutting down and not showing enough emotion, will result in negative outcomes. You need to be seen as balanced and sane if you want to be taken seriously.
Be present and accounted for when listening to a delectable intended talk about their personal life. If this is a new relationship, you’ll be showing your best side.
Don’t discount this advice in a current relationship as well. It could need some patching, and this path could benefit both of you.
This is also a week to allow yourself to be drawn into an activity that might not normally thrill you. To those of you who frequent DCPA-type cultural events, don’t turn up your nose at a local belching contest. (Holding the nose is permitted.) For you avid belchers out there, don’t discount the opera as being worthwhile. Imagine what you could do with a baritone’s breath control.
This is the time to connect with others on both a personal and social level. Just remember not to be pushy or wishy-washy or you’ll blow the entire energy.
Wednesday through the weekend are excellent days to be led to happiness.
Virgo
August 23 to September 22
Just like a luminous heavenly body, you’ll be brightly visible and pleasing to the eye.
This would be a good time to adopt an attitude, perhaps one borrowed from someone you admire. This advice, although seemingly odd, will enable you not to feel nervous or out of place as you bask in the limelight of the week.
This is also a good time to spread the word that you’re available and looking for fun and games. Do so tactfully, of course, and without seeming desperate, but make sure that the word gets out.
You might want to get in touch with an old flame and let them know that you’re ready to fan their flames once again.
If it was miserable the first time don’t go there again. Common sense is a necessity every week, isn’t it?
The week should be used for increasing the number of people you get to know on a personal basis. If you’ve been a hermit, move out of your cave.
Be confident.
Tuesday, Saturday and Sunday are excellent days to socialize.
Libra
September 23 to October 22
You can make progress in your personal and romantic life if you relax and give into the flow.
Don’t question how you get there or what you do when presented with certain situations, regardless of how unusual they may be. Try to see the benefit of every connection as it arises and you could find yourself attracted to someone who’ll be attracted to you as well.
You’ll have to take things slowly however, as you don’t have quite enough energy this week to bring this relationship to fruition. This is about fact-finding and meeting new people without necessarily trying to push the necessity of a relationship.
Capture as many phone numbers and e-mail addresses as you can and hold onto them until a week that’s more conducive to actually connecting.
This is also a good time to reevaluate how certain situations in your life affected you and how they’ve formed (or twisted) your ability to get along in romantic relationships.
If you find yourself feeling stagnant in a current love connection, don’t fret. It’s par for the course. Things should loosen up as the weeks unfold.
Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday are good days for romantic conversations.
Scorpio
October 23 to November 21
Expect the unexpected!
You could find yourself thunderstruck by a new acquaintance. You’ll be taken by surprise, by storm and by golly.
This infatuation could develop into more but there are some rules to follow.
The first necessity is one of staying calm and not reacting, or overreacting, too quickly. Being as serene as possible and paying attention to all the details that surround you will give you the opportunity to take advantage of this new emotional potential. It’s also important to know that the person involved won’t have the same attraction to you as you do to them, at least not in the beginning.
In order to make yourself attractive to them, you’ll need to stay as unaffected as possible and not even hint at the threatening sorts of energies that they’ve had to deal with before. It’s almost certain that they’ve been desired in the past and that someone has come on way too strongly for them. This will make them twice shy, and less likely to be open to your advances, especially if you overdo it.
If they happen to see you with the same eyes that you see them with, proceed slowly even though you may want to jump right into the middle of things. There will certainly be details that need to be ironed out before moving to the next step.
This is the wrong week to engage in sexual encounters so get back to your respective corners before the mood gets too sweaty.
The whole week is good for new connections as long as you take them slowly.
Sagittarius
November 22 to December 21
If your heart isn’t in it, don’t pursue it.
Any attempt to force yourself onto a new love object will be rewarded with failure.
The other side of this coin may have you as the object of someone’s desires. If you don’t feel a similar attraction, tactfully but firmly refuse to play.
Giving in because you feel flattered or are too bored not to take them up on their offer is a huge mistake. You need to be certain of what you’re doing at all points of the process and not let emotional constraints tie you to someone who could be more of a drag than a Colorado Gubernatorial debate.
By the way, an invitation to a nice dinner or night on the town should be postponed until another time. Energetically you just don’t have what it takes to enjoy it fully or to give that enjoyment back. It would be better to put off till tomorrow rather than to be perceived as being a stick in the mud.
If you can manage to deal with larger groups of people rather than intimate situations, you’ll do better. Mingle with the crowd without the zeroing in on one person or letting them zero in on you.
Careful connecting can be done Friday through the weekend.
Capricorn
December 22 to January19
A situation is coming that could lead you to your dream.
Your dynamic drive, extreme sense of energy and willingness to play the game, if need be, will come in handy this week.
It’s vital that you head off any unwanted advances before they can get in the way of the real thing. The implication is that someone will quite suddenly attempt to bully their way into your life, heart and perhaps, even pants. If this isn’t what you want, don’t even begin to go there.
If, however, this is something that sounds quite appealing to you, don’t be afraid to go for it. The energies are such that you have almost an unlimited amount of romantic energy behind you and the ability to frolic with more than one willing playmate.
Of course, you need to use common sense, and if you do decide to play, do so safely.
It’s difficult for anything go wrong this week, notice I didn’t say impossible. This is one energy that’ll be hard to screw up.
Make sure to dress for success when it comes to attracting suitable partners.
Monday, Thursday and Saturday are your best days to connect.
Aquarius
January 20 to February 18
When it comes to love and romance, you may feel leashed.
If you don’t feel that way, you might want to think twice before getting involved in anything that deals with the heart.
You could find yourself involved in a nasty relationship, and not in a fun, nasty way. This will bring frustration.
You may already be in that relationship, and are now having to deal with the reality that things aren’t what you initially thought they would be.
It’s also possible that the person you’re involved with has been straying away from camp. Although I don’t suggest being paranoid, it may do some good to realize that the tie that binds is beginning to fray. If the relationship is worthwhile, do what you can to splice the cord before your next foray.
An interesting new development could come as the week progresses This could be someone new that you meet but, once again, don’t put your energies into something new, at least not now.
If you absolutely must decide to get involved in the world of love and romance, do so without expectations of the longevity of the relationship. It isn’t going to happen this week.
Make Wednesday, Friday and Saturday your days to connect.
Pisces
February 19 to March 20
The potential of a powerful relationship may seem to be present, but beware of illusions.
Two possibilities could present themselves.
The first would have you rushing headlong to someone because you’re absolutely certain that they’re the one you’ve been dreaming about all your life. They may seem to have everything you want, but I can guarantee you, this is the wrong week to pursue it. If you can maintain a lifeline to them for a week or two, it could prove to be what you want it to be.
Stay alert or you’ll come on too strongly and either scare them away or have them take advantage of you. Neither one of these scenarios is productive.
The other possibility is that you’ll be the one who’s approached. This won’t be your normal, run-of-the-mill, every day how do you do. This will be a full frontal onslaught of sexually charged, romantic energy designed to take you by storm. No matter how flattered you may be, seek shelter quickly.
If you happen to be on a blind date and the evening goes tolerably well, don’t fall for an invitation to slip between the sheets. This energy will subject you to a terrible situation that could last much longer the sanity demands.
Don’t be afraid to connect with people but do so with thoughtfulness.
Friday and the weekend are good days to gently play with others.
