Q: Well howdy there, Scott:
You familiar with Pamela Rogers? Yeah, the hot blond 28-year-old schoolteacher in Tennessee that had sex with her 13-year-old student. Well my name is Brian and I was just wondering why so many chicks over 20 are doing this despite the dangers.
The reason I ask is because here I am over 20, very attractive, intelligent, and I can go nightclubbing on any given weekend in an endeavor to at least collect one damn phone number and go through absolute hell trying (you know what men have to go through and endure to meet women generally) and come home empty-handed.
I go online and every day at least several attractive female teachers are being thrown in jail and several housewives as well for getting it on with their under 16-year-old students (or the paper or pizza boy). On the one hand, I see women doing everything they can to avoid men and run from them… on the other I see women willing to risk it all for sexual contact.
What the hell gives?
What is the attraction when it comes to these very young men? And how can I use their “seductive” techniques? Hell, I don’t even care about sex, all I want is a phone number.
Your insight would be greatly appreciated.
SCOTT: Well, howdy there, Brian!
The schoolteachers and housewives who prey on 16-year-old boys are no different than grown men who go after underage girls yet we don’t look to them for dating tips!
Don’t be fooled, there’s no seductive technique there at all. The reason they’re “getting it on” with 16 year olds is because they’ve got a problem and kids are such easy vulnerable targets.
OK, now to you. Despite the freaky comparison in your e-mail, I realize that you’re not saying you’re looking for underaged girls, which is good, otherwise today’s column would go much differently.
So, what’s your problem meeting women? Well I’m not there, so I can’t be sure exactly but one thing to consider is not to try too hard.
Don’t count how many numbers you can get and forget about “techniques.” Just be cool and be yourself and you’ll wind up with some digits in your pocket.
By the way, it might help not to think of women as “chicks.” They don’t go for that anymore…