R. Eric Thomas
Bestselling author R. Eric Thomas brings his signature wit and warmth to “Asking Eric,” an advice column tackling life’s quandaries. Drawing on his stint as Slate’s “Dear Prudence,” Thomas dishes out insightful, humorous guidance for navigating relationships, work, and everything in between.
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Asking Eric: Friend is shell of himself after relationship
"If this were your friend, what would you say or how would you approach the conversation without offending him?"

Asking Eric: Family thinks brother is too wealthy to be included in tradition
"I’m tired of my husband participating in everyone’s birthday and then being ignored for his."

Asking Eric: Between affairs and a secret crypto account, wife can’t trust husband anymore
"Many years before, he’d had a two-year affair with another coworker. It was a devastating experience for me."

Asking Eric: Husband keeps giving wife socks; they remind her of a terrible experience
"I threw them away and they came back. He gave me five more pairs at Christmas. I kept these for animal first aid."

Asking Eric: Yoga teacher follows coworker obsessively
"How do I tell Sue to find her own life path and seek her own opportunities instead of copying me?"

Asking Eric: After nearly half a century, holiday hostess reaches limit
"I know if I say something about a hotel, they will be highly insulted."

Asking Eric: Neighbor is putting himself in grave danger but won’t change
"I know if I call an authority on him, he will know it was me. Please, advise."

Asking Eric: Wife struggles to keep holiday special after husband’s dementia diagnosis
"A celebration would be difficult to impossible for guests and family members because of his type of dementia."

Asking Eric: After family death, bereaved kept the card but returned the cash
"I’ve sent out a lot of cards with money in them. We have a large family. I never received money back before this."

Asking Eric: Friendship disrupted by house full of security cameras
"Her husband now has small cameras indoors and out. I find this a little creepy."