R. Eric Thomas
Bestselling author R. Eric Thomas brings his signature wit and warmth to “Asking Eric,” an advice column tackling life’s quandaries. Drawing on his stint as Slate’s “Dear Prudence,” Thomas dishes out insightful, humorous guidance for navigating relationships, work, and everything in between.
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Asking Eric: Friends made on a cruise overstep on land
As the years progressed, this couple has repeatedly invited themselves to our house, even more than once a year and always during the winter months.

Asking Eric: Happy marriage disrupted by differing views on hoarding
My husband's solution is to box and stack things in the basement.

Asking Eric: After an inheritance, couple disagree about retirement plans
My wife of eight months, who is physically whole and energetic, and who never held a paying job, wants us to spend my inheritance to live in "active seniors" retirement.

Asking Eric: Friend still speaking to her ex, despite his mistreatment
I have told her I wouldn't tolerate being involved with a negative person like that, but she can't bring herself to cut ties with him.

Asking Eric: Vegan housemate constantly criticizes friend’s food choices
Dear Eric: I took a job in DC at the behest of my close friend, who also invited me to live with her. She said she was retiring and moving...

Asking Eric: Mother resentful after daughter moves back in with ex
Every time I visit her and talk with her, I'm left feeling emotionally and mentally drained afterward.

Asking Eric: After negative paternity test, ex still wants to maintain contact
I want a family. They want to forget about me. I just want to do the right thing.

Asking Eric: Mother torn about giving daughter deceased father’s letters
Dear Eric: "Jim" and I had a daughter, "Helena," who was 12 years old when her father died of cancer. Jim and Helena were very close, and she knew that...

Asking Eric: “Helicopter” mom keeps grandkids from grandparents
It seems that my daughter-in-law’s outburst and overreaction may have been bubbling up for a while.

Asking Eric: Workplace ignored husband’s death
I feel hurt and unappreciated that I didn’t receive even a sympathy card.