Q: Scott, l want to know why men don’t find me desirable. I think I’m beautiful and I know I have a warm heart and a sense of humor. I would like to know what men really want out of a woman, because I can’t seem to land a man.
I don’t believe in the cliché “when you stop looking it will find you” mainly because I have tried that and it doesn’t seem to work. Please!!! I need your help.
– Stuck
SCOTT: What? Men don’t find you desirable? I don’t believe you! Let’s see, you’re beautiful with a warm heart and a sense of humor. I can already see them lining up to meet you…but you can’t. Why not?
I won’t tell you that it’ll magically fall into place when you stop looking but I will tell you not to try so hard. We’ve all been there and what you want to do is work smarter, not harder. Focus on being a strong, confident woman. Nothing attracts a man more than that! And if you don’t feel like a strong confident woman, just act like one. Seriously, it’ll work.
Most men want an emotionally stable woman who’s kind, not manipulative or whiny. That’s a good start. Oh, and she should also be fun to be around – big points for that!
I already see a guy in your near future and if you can change your outlook a little, you will too.