Q: I have been married for seven years. Within the past three months, my husband had been acting weird.
I asked him if he was going through a midlife crisis, and he said that we needed to talk.
He told me that he cheated on me three years ago. He refuses to tell me anything more about it.
Before, I really felt that we had a great marriage. Now, I don’t know what to do.
I do not want specific details. I just want to know the situation that surrounds the event.
My question is…how can I trust him?
He goes out every Thursday night to a local pub. How do I know that he is not seeing someone else?
What do I do? I want to make this work. How do I fix this?
Thank you.
Scott: I wonder why your husband suddenly chose to confess a three-year-old affair, don’t you?
It just seems odd. A midlife crisis? A guilty conscience?
Who knows? He does!
If he really wants to redeem himself in this, he needs to tell you the complete truth, including any and all details you want.
Tell him that. You deserve to know what you want to know about this affair.
How can you trust him? You can’t. At least, not right now.
Do you really know he’s at the local pub on Thursday nights? Does he ever take you with him? Why not?
I’m telling you, something dodgy is up with him
I hope you don’t choose to let this all be on his terms. You’ve got power in this relationship too, and it’s about time you start pulling some rank.