Q: Hello Scott,
I am crippled by this fact: a woman can easily lure a man into bed one night for the first time, have sex, and once it’s over he disappears. And then if she sees him six weeks later, he wants nothing, I repeat nothing, to do with the woman.
I can’t believe God created man without the sense of “emotional feelings.”
Because if this guy did not have any, what made him feel enough to have sex in the first place — yeah, with me? Some feeling had to be there.
This leave me with two questions:
1. What magic did I have to get him in bed for the first time? (It certainly did not work on the second encounter.)
2. Where can I purchase the HATE JUICE that is taken after a man gets what he wants?
– PUZZLED
Scott: Dear Puzzled,
I sense you’ve recently been through what most of us have gone though at one time or another, and I’m sorry for that.
But ask yourself this: Just how well did you know this guy? Could you even trust him?
In retrospect, not as much as you thought at the time right?
I don’t know what you meant about the whole “HATE JUICE” thing, but forget about it, because nothing important has anything to do with “HATE JUICE.”
Instead, focus on yourself and how well you know the guys you choose to sleep with.
How lucky you wrote to me, because I’m going to save you a heap of trouble.
Next time you lure a man into bed, make sure you know who you’re dealing with. No more wishful thinking, OK?
The lesson here is to know a guy better before you hop in the sack with him, no matter what.