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Q: What advice would you give to someone whose husband cheated on her numerous times by flying across the country to meet another woman? He later came clean and said he felt this woman he was flying to see “took advantage of him in a moment of weakness.”
What would your advice be to this couple or to the wife?
SCOTT: You don’t even want to know what I think about that, but I’ll tell you anyway.
Why not? In the situation you described, it’s the person with the sordid cheating husband who is being taken advantage of in a moment of weakness, not the husband.
Obviously this less-than-a-gentleman has a difficult time taking responsibility for his actions, and a much easier time playing the victim role, which can only mean one thing: he’ll most likely be “victimized” at some point again.
Pig.
So, would the wife really want to wait around to see if it happens again? Sounds like a real nail-biter to me.