Aries
March 21 to April 19
Don’t saddle the horse of love if you can’t control the pace.
You may feel as though you need to be at a full gallop when it comes to dealing with romantic and relationship issues, but far from it. Pull back on the reins and let that proverbial horse find its own watering hole.
This week’s energies deal with balancing your emotional world and sitting high in the saddle of love.
The thought of being calm and centered may be unusual to you but you’ll get used to it, I promise. Good things are coming your way, but they don’t have a chance of breaking through unless you trot rather than run.
If you’re in a current relationship, don’t change the dynamics at this time.
If you’re in a budding new relationship, let it progress on its own energies or you’ll drive that mustang right over a cliff. (Car or horse, either way a problem.)
Wonderful opportunities could be coming your way, but only if you allow yourself to be led to them rather than being the leader.
You might also find that a social setting having a sports theme might be promising. Yes, a Bronco game might be the ticket. (Now you know why all the horsie talk. Pretty lame, huh?)
Saturday’s the only day not to pursue connections with people.
Taurus
April 20 to May 20
Walk away from anything that seems to be too much work.
Although this advice may appear to be the cowardly way out (and perhaps it is), it’s also the best way to keep from getting your heart broken.
You can’t afford to be a doormat, unless you’re really into that sort of thing.
Anything that stands in your way should be considered to be superfluous to your good health and emotional well-being. In other words, shun it and get away from it.
The good news is that you should be able to meet several good people, all of whom have wonderful, strong qualities that you can appreciate. The best news of all, is that they should also appreciate you.
Incidentally, if someone doesn’t appreciate you, refer to the above advice and get away as quickly as you can.
This energy may also manifest as a feeling of discontentment in a current relationship due to criticism or simple tedium. You don’t necessarily have to look for something new but be aware that your strengths need to be recognized if you’re going to be happy.
Thursday through the weekend are excellent days to seek love.
Gemini
May 21 to June 20
Do the right thing or don’t do it at all.
This depressing, boring advice is absolutely necessary. This means not following your first impulse, or even your second or third for that matter, unless you know that what you’re doing is absolutely correct.
The possibility of meeting someone who’ll make you want to indulge in terribly improper activities is quite high. As you can probably guess, this person, more than likely, won’t be available, at least not by the standards of polite society.
I’m not advocating bowing to social stress but I am advising against convoluted, difficult relationships with people who should, quite frankly, know better. The types of encumbrances that could come your way this week simply won’t benefit you in the long run. They may be fun, at least to begin with, but will become heavy before you know it.
Now that all the warnings are out of the way, here’s some good news.
You may meet someone who’s exactly which have been looking for. Gasp, they may even look the way you think they should. Can it be this person may be unconnected and available, more importantly, emotionally not a wreck.
Settle down now, you’ll need to do your homework to make sure that this person is who they claim to be.
If you can ascertain that this is the truth, move forward without hesitation, making sure that you leave room for escape if you need. If you can’t ascertain veracity, wait for another week but maintain a connection on a friendly basis to hold your place.
Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday are the best days to indulge in love.
Cancer
June 21 to July 22
This week, just be your lovely, incredible self and everything should go well. Your charisma will be high and your ability to be seen as someone worth playing with is certain.
If you want to be noticed and be the belle or beau of the ball, you need to be understated and calm.
Should you find yourself in a social setting that feels unfamiliar or threatening, do everything in your power not to make a fool of yourself.
This will mean keeping your head about you and not being goaded or lured into emotional quagmires in which others dwell. Yes, this all sounds complex, but in actual practice you’ll find it much easier than I’m making it.
Any social engagements that are offered should be seized, as long as you find yourself in the type of place that’ll expose you to the right kinds of people. What are the right kinds of people? Those that you enjoy and are genuinely fun. If it ain’t fun, don’t do it.
Saturday and Wednesday are the only days that may bring difficulty to the world of romance.
The downtown area is just right for frolicking.
Leo
July 23 to August 22
Spend a little cash to make a big impression.
I know, it’s all relative and one man’s fortune is another man’s pocket change. However, this is a time to treat someone to a night out on the town, a simple dinner, or just a quiet cup of coffee.
It’s not about the amount you spend, it’s about being willing to give something of yourself in order to make someone else happy. This small gift, or over-the-top gift, depending upon how magnanimous you feel, will make quite an impression on that special someone.
If you don’t have a special someone on whom to dote, don’t worry. This is a good time to meet people and be willing to buy a few drinks, cups of coffee or whatever. (I used to go the coffee route; free refills.)
Be on the lookout for someone who’s just been through a rather harrowing experience. This will be emotional, and will have been illuminating to the person involved. It’ll also have served to settle them down a bit and make them ready for the next step of their life.
This could be the person you’ve been waiting for.
Thursday, Saturday and Sunday are your days to connect.
Virgo
August 23 to September 22
Yup, every week’s got one.
It seems that every week has one sign destined for difficulties in love and romance. Well, this week it’s you.
This doesn’t mean you won’t find the types of connections you’re looking for but it does mean you’ll have to work extra hard to find success and romance. Don’t blame me, I’m only the messenger.
Your best bet would be to center on intellectual connections foregoing the physical for another time. Boring you say? Tedious you say?
Once again, don’t blame me. I just call em like I see em.
By focusing on the mind, you stand a good chance of meeting someone who could turn into a good friend and possible partner as time goes on. If you try to focus on the other side of romance, you’ll find yourself being taken advantage of, perhaps without your even knowing it,.
Interestingly enough, this is the perfect time for Internet dating, chat rooms, newsgroups or whatever else catches your fancy.
Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday are the best days to connect.
Libra
September 23 to October 22
This week begins a process of change when it comes to love and romance in your life.
To some of you, this will be a welcome energy. To others it may bring stress. The key is not to fear it but to realize that the time has come for major transitions when it comes to how you deal with your emotional self.
Once again, based on the individual, you may want to do some dating or you may want to become a hermit for part of the week. Whatever the decision, be willing to relax and allow the winds of change to billow your sails.
There’s a strong chance of a work-related romance evolving. These are intrinsically risky, so be extremely cautious before venturing forth into this world.
If you don’t happen to be currently employed, you may find this person through a local hangout or daily trip. The key is on familiarity but don’t assume that you know this person better than you really do.
By the way, a word of warning here, for those of you inclined to engage in physical, sweaty, contact, love sports, be aware that bringing a new generation of players into the game is highly possible. In other words, be responsible.
The only day to shun love, is Tuesday.
Scorpio
October 23 to November 21
Enough down-to-earth energies already!
Your frustration levels are probably high and the time has come to engage in more interesting and enjoyable activities.
Interestingly enough, this could settle you down and make you feel better than you’ve felt in a long, long time. The key is to be willing to look at a different paradigm for love and to apply it into your life without fear.
I don’t have to tell you, since you’re a Scorpio, that you often focus on physical issues over all other aspects of relationships. You don’t have to abandon this frame of thought, just be willing to bring in a new way of looking at someone.
By being more rounded and less concerned with surface appearances, you’ll open the doorway for someone who could be fun and a real surprise when it comes to intimacy.
This week’s energies aren’t negating the prospect of a physical relationship, just downplaying it.
By the way, if you meet someone new and your intuition senses a frustrating energy, run away.
Should you find yourself throwing your affections into unproductive places, stop immediately.
Monday, Thursday and Sunday are your best days to meet new playmates.
Sagittarius
November 22 to December 21
You’re more vulnerable than you’ve been a long, long time.
When it comes to love and romance, your ability to be hurt or misled is as high as it’s ever been. This will be annoying at best and devastating at worst.
You need to guard your heart and not allow yourself to be taken into anybody’s confidence unless they absolutely, positively, ironcladly prove their worthiness.
This proof, by the way, shouldn’t be easy to come by. In other words, make someone show you that they’re genuine and truly interested in you before giving more than you want to.
Now, if you happen to be into light romance without commitment, feel free to indulge. However, be safe and cautious. Your vulnerabilities are real, regardless of how you feel.
By the way, don’t try to be the life of the party at any point this week. You’ll only succeed in making a fool of yourself.
Tuesday, Wednesday and the weekend are perfect for fun and games.
Capricorn
December 22 to January19
This can be an amazing week!
It’s possible, in fact highly probable, that you’ll meet someone who could change your outlook on love. This person may be the one, or may lead you to that person as time goes on.
This is not a time to be cynical or push people away. Be open-minded, as well is openhearted, if you want this week’s energy to reach you successfully.
It’s possible that you’ll meet someone early in the week who rings your proverbial bell, only to meet someone else who also sneaks into the bell tower to make some noise. One at a time my friend, one at a time.
Yes, love is possible, but won’t become a reality unless you narrow your focus. Don’t play the field once you’ve begun with one person.
It’s also possible that you’ll meet someone of great interest through a third-party or dating service of some sort.
Of course, for this to happen, you have to be open to the possibility and be willing to play that particular game. If the matchmaker involved happens to be someone older, trust them, even if they do still wear polyester.
You can also find someone on your own by visiting interesting social gatherings that you enjoy.
The best days to meet this person will be Tuesday through Friday.
Aquarius
January 20 to February 18
Yup, every week’s got one. It just seems like every week one sign has to have difficulties in love and romance. The good news for you, is that this week it’s Virgo.
In fact, your luck is quite the opposite. You stand a good chance of meeting several fascinating and truly good people with whom you can enjoy mutual interests and activities.
This week is a golden opportunity for you to expand your horizons. To do so, you need to concentrate on meeting as many different prospects as you can.
This isn’t an invitation, nor permission to be a Tom or Thomasina cat prowling the alleys. You may be thinking that this energy is useless if you can’t enjoy it on a physical level. Quite the opposite is true.
You’ll gain more this week from the pursuit of true friendship and connection than you will through the aforementioned alley cat mentality.
This doesn’t mean that you can’t engage in the hot and sweaty if you get the chance. As a matter of fact, you may get more than one opportunity for just such an engagement.
Just don’t get caught up in that mentality or you’ll be making a serious mistake in judgment when it comes to the right person, or persons.
Have fun, enjoy people and be present.
Friday through the weekend are excellent days to meet the right types.
Pisces
February 19 to March 20
If you don’t want to be treated like someone’s mother, favorite uncle, brother, sister, stepbrother, or whatever, stop acting that way.
Being a caretaker is out. Now, before you begin plans to begin pillaging a village for two, realize that it’s out only for this week.
The next few days, you’re not allowed to tilt your head, nod knowingly and soothingly murmur, “I see, I really feel your pain.”
This is a time to focus on your own needs and to be unconcerned with trying to please everyone else. The only life you need to perfect is your own.
The good news is that this could lead to a dynamic connection with someone. If you’d like to take the word dynamic as meaning sexual, feel free. It doesn’t have to end up that way but it certainly may.
You’ll need to be relatively proactive in seeking this relationship and be willing to work at it. Sorry, nothing comes easily.
This would be an excellent time to change your usual habits and to visit parts of town you haven’t been to in a while.
Get out of that Highlands Ranch safety zone and head for Coors Field and surrounding areas. Leave your trendy loft downtown and make a beeline for Castle Rock or Loveland. Courage my friends, courage.
The entire week is worth playing with.
