Fred Berhenke, left gives a kiss to his significant other Suzy Whittemore, right, after the two finished the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 5 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The happy couple met at the Cherry Creek Sneak 25 years ago in 1992. They wound up at her house for a pasta-refueling lunch. They continued getting to know each other while walking her dog. They went on a date and they have been together now for 25 years. The run the Cherry Creek Sneak every year.
The first time Suzy Whittemore and Fred Berhenke ran the Cherry Creek Sneak together, 25 years ago on a gorgeous Colorado morning, she cast such a spell on him that he ran the beginning of the race backward.
“Fred was showing off already,” Whittemore recalled Sunday after they commemorated the silver anniversary of the day they met by running the race more or less together again. “I think he was thinking he was flirting with me.”
Yes, he was.
“No comment,” Berhenke said with a grin.
It worked. The couple, both now 73, have been together ever since that day in 1992. She finished Sunday’s 5-mile race in one hour, 18 minutes, 31 seconds, then waited at the finish line for a couple of minutes and crossed the finish line again with him (1:21:15). He wore the shirt from the 1992 race, the 10th Sneak.
They met before the start of the 1992 race at the corner of First and Steele. She was with a friend of hers, and he recognized the friend from a Denver Athletic Club exercise class where he was a regular. He struck up a conversation, and it wasn’t long before he was smitten.
He was in the middle of a divorce. She had just broken up with a long-term boyfriend. They ran that race together, and midway through it they came upon her ex-boyfriend.
“I said to Fred — I hardly knew him, for an hour, or whatever — ‘Act like you like me,’ ” she said.
“To put on a show for the ex-boyfriend,” he said.
After the race Berhenke, Whittemore and her friend hung out together on a hill near the finish. They were having such a grand day, Whittemore invited them to her house for pasta and wine. Pretty soon her friend realized she was in the way and left them alone. When Whittemore needed to walk her dog, Fred went along. They wound up at a designer show home and decided to check it out.
“There was a little Romeo and Juliet balcony,” she said. “Guess who got a smooch.”
That night he called and left a message on her answering machine that said: “I want you to know I had the best time today that I’ve had in a long time.” She wasn’t there to answer the phone because she was on a date. She called him back a day or two later and got his answering machine. He called back and they talked for more than two hours. They went on their first date that week, and together they’ve run all but two of the Cherry Creek Sneaks since.
“I love his honesty, his brightness and his fidelity,” she said, adding that their personalities are very different.
“Opposites attract,” he said.
“In this case,” she said, “opposites do attract.”
When it comes to running, he’s slowing down because as she put it, “His knees and hips are beginning to crunch up on him a little bit.” But they remain active. She skied 18 times this year. He got in “seven or eight” days.
“You just can’t sit around and do nothing,” she said, “or you’re going to end up sitting around doing nothing and gaining weight.”
That attitude is just one reason he’s still smitten after 25 years.
“She’s energetic,” he said, “she’s a great cook, she likes to do things, and she gets me off my dead duff.”
Helen H. Richardson, The Denver Post
At the firing of the race gun, runners sprint from the starting line to begin the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Stanley Tsai, middle, and Mariska Vincent, right, take off from the start of the 1/2 mile Kids Fun Run at the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and the 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Racers get into their stride at the start of the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Racers get into their stride at the start of the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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James McGregor, of Denver, holds and American flag during the singing of the National Anthem before the start of the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 Mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run. McGregor, who was in the military, is running with Colorado Obstacle Racers. Their group lost one of their own to a drunk driver in Dec. and McGregor, and his group, are trying to raise money for her family and two other women who were injured in the car accident.
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Onlookers watch racers as they run by during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
Fred Berhenke, shows off the his 1992 Cherry Creek Sneak t-shirt, that he got from the first time he ran the race 25 years ago, before taking off to run the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 5 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. Berhenke met his significant other Suzy Whittemore at that race in 1992. The happy couple have been together ever since and run the race every year to celebrate. Photo by Helen H. Richardson/The Denver Post)
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Ayala Flores, of Castle Rock, with brightly dyed hair and matching pink gloves and running tights, waits at the finish line for friends during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak on April 23, 2017 in Denver. Flores ran the 5K race. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Runners, along with this one wearing a humorous tee-shirt, get ready to participate in 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 5 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Young Justin Santos, 2, claps his hands, as he and his mother Jene, right, wait for older brother Jonah to run by during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run. Jene Santos' son Jonah was running the 5K race.
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Runner Andrew Monaghan, right, of Denver, looks back to see how close his competitors are as he closes in on the finish line in first place during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. Monaghan placed 1st, Zachary Holloway, second from left, of Alamosa, took second and Dave Marks, in back, also from Alamosa, took third in the 10 mile race. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Runner Andrew Monaghan, right, of Denver, checks his watch before even hitting the winner's ribbon as he crosses the finish line of the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Jarrett Eller, left, bib # 5511, and Sam Nofziger, right, bib # 5099, battle it out for 2nd and third place during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 5 Mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. Eller beat Nofziger taking second place with a time of 27:23. Nofziger came in third with a time of 27:40. 5 Mile race winner Tim Howley finished with a time of 26:24. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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Bob Fitzgerald, of Castle Rock and his sister Julie Trono, right, cheer with Bob's daughter Daisy-Rose Fitzgerald, 17 months old, as they cross the finish line during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The trio did the 5K race. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.
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James McGregor, of Denver, runs with an American flag during the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 Mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run. McGregor, who was in the military, is running with Colorado Obstacle Racers. Their group lost one of their own to a drunk driver in Dec. and McGregor, and his group, are trying to raise money for her family and two other women who were injured in the car accident.
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Gloria Siekmeier, 84, right, chats with her grandson-in-law Ben Feijoo, left, as they admire her great-grandchildren, and Feijoo's kids, Eliana, second from left, and her twin brother Gabriel before the start of the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak on April 23, 2017 in Denver. Siekmeier has run the Cherry Creek Sneak races for 30 years. She goes back and forth from running the 5k and the 5 miler. This year, her 30th year running, she chose to do the 5 mile race.
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Fred Berhenke, left gives a kiss to his significant other Suzy Whittemore, right, after the two finished the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 5 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The happy couple met at the Cherry Creek Sneak 25 years ago in 1992. They wound up at her house for a pasta-refueling lunch. They continued getting to know each other while walking her dog. They went on a date and they have been together now for 25 years. The run the Cherry Creek Sneak every year.
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At the firing of the race gun, runners sprint from the starting line to begin the 35th annual Cherry Creek Sneak 10 mile race on April 23, 2017 in Denver. The popular annual race includes a 10 mile race, a 5 mile race, a 5K race and a 1/2 mile kids' fun run.