Q: I just found out my friend likes me and said he would date me if he didn’t have a girlfriend. He’s only been dating her for a month and I’ve realized I like him too. Should I tell him?
SCOTT: Yes! Yes! What are you waiting for? If you don’t tell him how you feel about him, he’ll never know! Tell him now and see how he responds. If he dumps the other girl, he’s yours. But if he strings her along, he’ll probably string you along, too. And if that’s the case, you’re going to want to cut yourself loose and find someone who’s really single and available to you.
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